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I’m Samorn Selim. 

I’m a lawyer turned career coach on a mission for us to take our careers from dread to joy. As the daughter of poor Lao refugees, I was told to pay my dues.

After coaching over 1,000 clients, I now realize that the idea that you have to pay your dues and work in a toxic place is a myth. 

We can face our challenges head on, do work we are passionate about, and work with good people with kind hearts to make a big impact. So even as we struggle, we can find a sense of belonging.

Jul 16, 2024

 

The Supreme Court rulings against the LGBTQAI2+ community is heartbreaking.  During these dark times, it’s important to remind ourselves that we still have a voice and can fight for social justice.

In this episode with my lovely neighbor, Stuart Gaffney, we discuss: 


- Creating life unicorn adventures by quitting your jobs and traveling with your partner for 365 days without social media.

- Growing up biracial and LGBTQ and the parallels between the movement for marriage equality for same-sex couples and that for interracial couples.

- How to navigate being a named plaintiff in a high profile case like the California Marriage Equality Act, and what you can do in the face of darkness when popular opinion is against who you are as a person.  

- How vulnerable it feels to literally put your lives on the line, and how thinking “there are not enemies, only future allies” helped him maintain optimism.

- Why the recent Supreme Court rulings are wrong, and what you can do to continue to fight for justice and advocate for positive change. 

- How to fight for justice while balancing having wonder and joy in life. 


Learn more about Stuart at https://marriageequality.me/ and on social media.  


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Get a copy of Samorn’s book, “Belonging: Self Love Lessons From A Workaholic Depressed Insomniac Lawyer” at https://tinyurl.com/swpc578c.


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