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I’m Samorn Selim. 

I’m a lawyer turned career coach on a mission for us to take our careers from dread to joy. As the daughter of poor Lao refugees, I was told to pay my dues.

After coaching over 1,000 clients, I now realize that the idea that you have to pay your dues and work in a toxic place is a myth. 

We can face our challenges head on, do work we are passionate about, and work with good people with kind hearts to make a big impact. So even as we struggle, we can find a sense of belonging.

Apr 4, 2023

 

Many of us experience generational trauma and mental health issues, and they impact our life and career choices.  In this episode, we discuss

 

- What it means to be Lao American and how the United State’s “Secret War” in Laos left a legacy of trauma.

- How generational trauma impacts your decisions, and what you can do to heal and move forward.  

- How embracing your origin story and acknowledging where you came from can help you heal, find a sense of purpose, and reconnect with your community for a sense of belonging. 

- Why mental health is considered taboo in Asian American Pacific Islander communities, and how to destigmatize and normalize conversations about depression, anxiety, and other mental illnesses.  

- Why it’s easier to tell everyone else to go to therapy rather than do the work ourselves, and what you can do as a first step to getting help.

- How you can use social media like Instagram to learn, connect, and make a career pivot.

- What you can do to pitch a perceived weakness like being a beginner as a strength in your job interview.  

- Why spending time with people from your own community can be healing.

- How you can learn about Lao history from the Thip Khao Talk Podcast, the Khao Niew’s Classroom, and the Legacies Library.  

- The importance of giving yourself grace, especially as a new parent and working mom who is trying to learn about your roots and teach it to your children.  



Learn more about Danae at www.linkedin.com/in/danae-hendrickson and learn more about Legacies of War on Instagram @legaciesofwar.


Connect with Samorn at www.linkedin.com/in/samornselim.


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