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I’m Samorn Selim. 

I’m a lawyer turned career coach on a mission for us to take our careers from dread to joy. As the daughter of poor Lao refugees, I was told to pay my dues.

After coaching over 1,000 clients, I now realize that the idea that you have to pay your dues and work in a toxic place is a myth. 

We can face our challenges head on, do work we are passionate about, and work with good people with kind hearts to make a big impact. So even as we struggle, we can find a sense of belonging.

Mar 28, 2026

"I didn't care about my job. I didn't care about my career. I cared about my son."

In this deeply personal and courageous episode, we sit down with Deep Lam to discuss the heartbreaking reality of losing her son to suicide. Deep shares the "unthinkable" experience of loss and reveals the subtle signs of isolation that can hide behind high achievement, good grades, and academic success.

If you are a parent, leader, or friend, this conversation is a must-watch to understand how to bridge the gap between "I'm fine" and the truth.

Key Chapters:

  • 00:00 - Deep’s Story: How I Lost My Son
  • 04:15 - The Signs I Missed (And What To Look For)
  • 12:30 - The One Question Every Parent Must Ask
  • 18:45 - Breaking the Stigma: Mental Health in the Workplace
  • 25:00 - Advice for Leaders Supporting Grieving Employees
  • 32:00 - How to Build a "Help Chain" at Home and Work

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Recommended Books: 

  • Career Unicornsā„¢ 90-Day 5-Minute Gratitude Journal: An Easy & Proven Way To Cultivate Mindfulness, Beat Burnout & Find Career Joy: https://tinyurl.com/49xdxrz8.
  • Career Unicornsā„¢ 90-Day 5-Minute Self-Reflection Journal: An Easy & Proven Way To Find Career Clarity, Purpose & Fulfillment: https://tinyurl.com/nnu8k5rd
  • Belonging: Self Love Lessons From A Workaholic Depressed Insomniac Lawyer: https://tinyurl.com/4z6erw7v 

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